I_was_sitting_on_the_footpath_right_outside_my_hostel_building_with_all_my
bags_packed, waiting_for_the_golf_cart_which_had_to_drop_me_till_the_gate
of_the_Infosys_campus_in_Mysore. Infosys_Technologies_ltd. is_the_most
prestigious_software_company_in_India_and_its_campus_in_Mysore, where_all
the_fresh_entrants_are_trained_is_considered_to_be_the_best_in_India. I
looked_at_the_surroundings. Road_was_empty_and_there_was_no_one_around.
All_the_trainees_were_attending_classes_as_it_was_around_eleven_in_the
morning. A_lovely_breeze_was_blowing_and_I_could_see_some_birds_frisking,
frolicking_and_playing_pranks_with_each_other_but_I_was_alone. I_was_alone
when_all_my_friends_were_in_the_class. Now_even_the_birds, the_wind_and
the_trees_had_started_teasing_me.

I_couldn’t_resist_myself_from_shedding_another_drop_of_tear_although_I’d
been_doing_the_same_the_whole_last_night. Of_course, I_was_checking_out
but_that_was_not_the_only_reason_for_the_tears. It_was_something_much
bigger_than_that_and_very_much_contemptible. I_was_not_leaving_the_campus
after_completing_my_training_but_I’d_been_expelled_from_the_company. Or_I
can_say, I_was_being_thrown_out. I_felt_like_dying.

Then_appeared_the_white_colored_cart_coming_from_the_road_adjoining_Food
Court_2. The_cart_reminded_me_of_my_first_day_in_the_campus_and_took_me
into_the_past_for_sometime.

What_a_lovely_evening_that_was?_How_excited_I_was_when_I_put_my_first_step
into_the_heaven_called_as_Mysore_campus_of_Infosys_and_was_completely
engrossed_with_the_thoughts_of_future_that_what_I_will_do_and_how_I’ll
enjoy_in_the_campus. First_thing_that_came_to_my_mind_that_day_was_to
explore_the_campus_and_locate_all_those_places_I’d_seen_in_those_lovely
photographs. I_sat_into_the_golf_cart_which_took_me_through_some_long_and
winding_but_neat_and_clean_roads. The_first_building_I_noticed_was_that
football_shaped_spherical_building_which_appeared_behind_the_lush_green
cricket_ground_on_the_right_side_of_the_road. In_fact_that_was_the_only
building_I’d_seen_before_coming_here_but_I_was_amazed_to_see_a_building_on
the_left_which_was_under_construction. It_was_absolutely_phenomenal_and
resembled_the_Colosseum_of_Rome. There_was_another_one_which_resembled_the
White_House_but_wasn’t_white_in_color. Some_guy_in_the_Cart_told_that_it
is_GEC_or_the_Global_Education_Centre_where_we’ll_go_through_our_training.

The_cart_stopped_at_a_small_building_inside_which_there_was_a_kind_of_a
reception. We_got_our_luggage_checked_and_room_was_allotted_to_me. The_guy
sitting_next_to_me_in_the_cab_was_to_be_my_room_mate. His_name_was_Varun
and_was_a_tall_but_slim_guy_from_Punjab_with_a_lot_of_beard_on_his_face
looked_as_if_he’s_not_shaved_since_ages_but_that_really_gave_him_a_typical
Punjabi_looks. I_was_just_thinking_how_someone_like_me_from_Gujrat_will
stay_with_such_a_guy_who_doesn’t_even_bother_to_shave_his_face. Then_we
were_sent_to_our_hostel_in_another_cart. We_just_found_out_that_our_hostel
is_nearest_to_FC2_and_moreover, the_hostel_right_next_to_us_was_a_girl
hostel. That_Punjabi_straight_away_planned_to_buy_a_new_binocular_so_that
he_could_easily_peep_into_girls_rooms_during_night.

I_opened_the_door_of_my_room_and_could_not_believe_my_eyes. It_was_the
best_room_I’d_ever_seen_with_my_own_eyes_and_was_just_exhilarated_with_the
thought_that_I’d_be_staying_here_for_next_few_months_though_with_some_one
who_looked_to_be_very_unhygienic. But_that_was_not_a_problem_at_all_coz
like_all_the_Punjabis_Varun_was_quite_nice_at_heart. We_just_kept_our_bags
and_explored_the_whole_campus. We_saw_the_lovely_swimming_pool, Gymnasium,
Bowling_alley, Market_and_Habib’s_haircutting_saloon_from_where_Varun_got
his_beard_trimmed.

The_classes_started_and_we_were_made_to_sit_in_a_big_room_having_a_huge
white_board_with_a_couple_of_projector_screens_in_the_front_and_opposite
to_that_were_numerous_seats_each_having_a_separate_computer_system. I_was
made_to_sit_in_the_third_row_and_luckily_between_a_couple_of_girls_though
both_of_them_had_just_ordinary_looks. Later_I_came_to_know_that_we_were
made_to_sit_alphabetically_when_I_got_introduced_with_both_those_gals. One
was_Ganmeet_from_Punjab_and_the_other_was_Geetha_from_Mangalore_and
sandwiched_between_them_was_me, Gaurav_Keswani_from_Vadodra.

Both_those_gals_were_quite_antithetical_in_their_behavior, style,
knowledge_and_everything_they_did. Where_Ganmeet_was_quite_simple, Geetha
was_stylish_like_all_ultra-mod_and_hap_Bangalore_gals. Ganmeet_was_calm,
composed_and_reserve_but_Geetha_was_dynamic_and_extrovert. And_most
importantly, Ganmeet_was_good_in_her_logics_and_a_very_strong_programmer
and_Geetha_was_a_contrast_in_this_matter_too. This_I_realized_when_she
asked_me_to_debug_her_first_C-language_assignment. I_was_shocked_to_see
the_code. She_had_put_the_include_statement_within_main. God, she_was_a
B.Tech_in_comp. science. But_her_cute_and_embarrassed_smile_was_clearly
accepting_her_weakness. I_helped_her_and_this_became_a_routine. Within_in
no_time_we_grew_very_close_to_each_other. We_used_to_have_the_meals
together, we_used_to_study_together, we_used_to_watch_the_movies_together
and_we_used_to_go_out_together. Our_friendship_grew_more_intense_when_she
flunked_in_the_first_module_test_of_C_language_but_I_got_an_‘A’_and_so_did
Ganmeet. But_my_roomy, Varun_had_also_flunked. So_Geetha_and_Varun_they
both_had_to_appear_for_the_re-test. Everyday_I_used_to_teach_them_and_make
them_practice_more_and_more. Now_we_were_like_a_group. Four_of_us_started
staying_together_as_Varun_and_Ganmeet, both_being_punjabi’s_grew_very
close_to_each_other. Now_instead_of_me, it_was_Ganmeet_who_taught_him.

Then_came_the_retest. I_and_Ganmeet_were_waiting_for_both_of_them_outside
the_hall. Varun_came_out_happily_clearly_showing_that_he’d_cleared_and_he
did. Many_came_out_but_she_was_still_in. I_was_getting_worried_as_only_I
knew_that_the_hopes_were_less. It_was_the_last_minute_when_she_came_out
jumping_and_without_speaking_a_word_threw_her_self_on_me_and_kissed_on_my
cheeks. Many_had_seen_but_all_knew_what_had_happened. I_was_stunned_and_so
were_Varun_and_Ganmeet. It_was_obvious_for_a_guy_who_never_had_any_gal_in
his_life_and_was_kissed_by_a_hot_south_Indian_gal_in_front_of_whole_batch.
But_she_took_it_as_a_very_normal_thing_and_I_pretended_the_same.

“Its_all_because_of_you_Gaurav, that_I’ve_cleared_it. Hats_off_to_you
sweetheart”, she_said.

We_were_not_into_any_sort_of_relationship_but_that’s_how_she_used_to_call
me_and_in_fact_all_her_close_friends. But_there_was_nothing_wrong_in_it
and_I_enjoyed_it. We_grew_more_and_more_close_to_each_other. She_took_care
of_me_in_every_sense:_my_dressing, my_eating_and_what_ever_I_did. She_told
me_many_things_about_gals_which_I’d_never_known. We_now_freely_shared_our
body_secrets_to_each_other.

On_the_next_weekend_she_took_me_to_Bangalore_where_she’d_done_her
engineering_degree. We_met_many_of_her_friends, my_friends_and_went_to
famous_markets_and_malls_of_the_city. One_thing_I_could_say, she’d_a_very
happening_friend_circle. In_the_evening_we_went_to_a_pub_where_both_of_us
danced_after_gulping_a_couple_of_beer_mugs. The_dance_grew_more_and_more
passionate_with_time. It_was_my_first_time_in_a_pub_but_she_was_quite_used
to_it. Next_evening_we_left_for_Mysore_which_is_a_three_hour_journey_from
Bangalore. But_there_I’d_spent_the_best_weekend_of_my_life.

On_the_way, we_talked_about_everything_on_the_earth. Then_she_kept_her
head_on_my_shoulder_and_held_me_which_I_could_say_was_half_a_hug. I_just
responded. I’d_never_sat_like_this_with_a_gal_ever_in_my_life. Everything
was_so_nice_and_tender. Time_seemed_like_flying. I_wished_I_could’ve_been
like_this_forever. I’d_fallen_in_love_with_her.

“You_know_what_Gaurav”, she_said.

“What?”_I_asked.

“You_remember_that_guy_Raghav, whom_we_met_in_Garuda_mall.”

“Yeah!_Why?”

“We’ve_been_in_love_for_last_3_years_and_yesterday_we_planned_to_marry.”
she_said_shyly.

It_was_all_over_for_me. Ground_escaped_underneath_my_feet. I_just_got_away
from_her_in_a_flash_and_asked, “Why_didn’t_you_tell_me_earlier?”

“I_thought_I’ll_tell_you_after_you_meet_him. I_hope_I_wasn’t_wrong?”

“No.. You_are_right. Anyways_Congrats”_I_said, sounding_very_low.

“thanks.”_she_said.

No_one_spoke_a_word_after_that_for_next_one_hour. She_was_busy_with_her
iPod_and_I_was_with_my_novel_when_suddenly_she_asked,”_What_happened
Gaurav?_Why_are_you_so_quiet?”

“Nothing”, I_said.

She_kept_on_asking_again_and_again_but_I’d_the_same_answer_until_she_got
irritated_and_said,”_you_are_telling_me_or_not?”

“Its_of_no_use_dear. You_can’t_do_anything_about_it.”_I_said_and_rightly
so. I_loved_her_and_she_loved_someone_else_whom_she_was_going_to_marry.

“Well, let_me_make_3_guesses.”_She_said_in_a_very_naughty_tone_and_I_agreed.

“Ok. Hmmmmmmm. You_didn’t_enjoy_with_me_at_Bangalore?”_she_asked.

I_nodded_my_head_straight_away. Both_of_us_knew_that_this_wasn’t_the
reason. I_thought_she_was_just_trying_to_change_my_mood.

“thennnn. U_didn’t_like_Raghav?”

Now_she_was_coming_to_the_point. This_was_somewhat_the_reason_but_not_the
exact_one.

“Hey. He’s_quite_good_yaar_and_both_of_u_make_a_nice_couple. And_it’s_your
life;_I_don’t_have_to_marry_him. So, last_guess_now.”_I_replied.

“Then…_you’ve_a_liking_for_me?”_She_said_smiling.

I_was_caught. In_fact_clean_bowled. She’d_hit_the_bull_eye. I_turned_red.
I_tried_my_level_best_to_control_my_expressions_and_said,”No_way_yaar. I
don’t_like_to_call_engaged_nos.”

“ohhhhh. Mr. Gaurav_keswani_think_about_it_again.”

I_had_to_admit_it_now. And_this_time_she_laughed. I_asked_the_reason_but
again_she_laughed. I_was_perplexed_at_her_enigmatic_laugh. Finally_she
spoke.

“You_know_what_my_stupid.”

“What?”_I_inquired_filled_with_curiosity.

“Raghav_and_I_are_just_friends_you_dumb.”

She_broke_into_chuckles_again. I_was_confused_and_even_I’d_started_smiling
now_and_finally_started_laughing_with_her.

This_time_I_held_her_and_said, “I_love_you_Geetha.”

“I_love_you_too_stupid. And_did_all_this_coz_I_know_that_you_were_not
going_to_propose_me_easily”_She_replied.

We_both_fell_in_each_other’s_arms_and_waited_for_our_destination. Finally
Geetha_was_mine. It_was_the_happiest_day_of_my_life. We_reached_Mysore
campus_and_again_got_busy_into_our_same_daily_routine:_attending_the
classes, completing_assignments, studying_in_the_class_after_dinner, going
for_long_walks_and_kissing_each_other_when_ever_we_got_chance. I_always
used_to_thank_god_for_the_life_he’d_given_me. Modules_tests_came_and_went.
I_kept_on_getting_‘A’_grades_and_she_somehow_managed_to_clear_them. Both
of_us_were_quite_happy. We_made_a_few_trips_with_Varun_and_Ganmeet_to
Ooty, Coorg_and_Mangalore_which_was_Geetha’s_home_town. We_met_her_parents
there_who_were_very_humble_but_her_little_sister_was_naughty_like_her.

Now_we_had_entered_the_last_month_of_our_training. Shortly_we_were_going
to_have_our_comprehensive_exam_which_was_a_mixture_of_all_the_modules
which_we’d_studied_so_far. It_also_included_a_practical_exam_in_which_we’d
to_complete_a_project_within_3_hours_and_it_was_the_toughest_thing
especially_for_someone_like_Geetha. The_day_for_compre_came. All_of_us
cleared_it_but_Geetha. Both_of_us_were_very_depressed. Now_she’d_to_appear
for_it_again. Actually_compre_is_the_most_important_part_of_the_training.
If_you_don’t_clear_it_your_training_won’t_complete. Now_retest_was_the
only_hope_for_her.

Retest_was_the_very_next_day. We_were_going_to_classroom_after_dinner. And
suddenly_she_started_crying.

“Gaurav. I_really_love_you.”_She_said.

“I_love_you_too_sweetu. Don’t_cry. Everything_would_be_ok. I’m_there_for
you. I_won’t_let_you_flunk_again.”_I_consoled_her.

“No. I_will_because_there’s_no_way_out. And_we’ll_be_separated_forever. ”

“No_dear. It_won’t_ever_happen”_I_said_and_took_her_in_my_arms.

“Gaurav. Can_you_do_something_for_me?”_She_asked.

“Of_course_my_love. My_whole_life_is_yours.”_I_said.

“You’ll_have_to_sit_along_with_me_tomorrow. You_know_every_one_does_it.
Meenal’s_boyfriend_helped_her_out_that’s_why_she_cleared. I_hope_Even_I
can_expect_this_much_from_my_love.”_She_said.

I_was_drowned_into_deep_thinking_because_it_was_really_risky, In_fact_very
risky. We_could’ve_been_thrown_out_of_the_company_if_caught. But_on_the
other_side_was_my_love. What_I_would_do_in_the_company_without_her_because
if_she_fails_she’d_be_out, I_thought. Then_I_just_looked_into_matter
carefully_that_these_people_never_count_the_number_of_candidates_appearing
for_a_test_and_how_many_are_extra. Then_I_thought_that_I’ll_sit_on_another
system_and_complete_the_project_and_submit_on_Geetha’s_employee_id.

The_day_came;_we_all_were_sitting_in_the_class_room. I_was_sitting_a_bit
far_from_her_and_finally_we_got_the_project. It_was_not_at_all_tough_for
me. I_started_working_on_it_and_had_completed_almost_half_when_Srikkanth.M
entered_into_the_classroom. He_was_our_batch_owner, just_like_a_class
teacher_in_schools. Don’t_know_how_but_he’d_got_the_report_that_no. of
candidates_appearing_were_more_than_the_no. in_the_list. I_was_shocked. It
was_a_dead_end_to_my_career. Coming_time_won’t_be_easy_for_me_and_I’ll
have_to_face_a_lot, I_thought. I_look_at_Geetha’s_face. She_was_looking_as
lovely_and_innocent_as_ever. But_she_too_was_badly_shocked. But_don’t_know
why, I_wasn’t_afraid. Love_had_given_me_a_special_courage_and_I_was_doing
it_for_my_love, no_one_else. So_what_if_I’m_caught. Srikkanth_knew_me
quite_well_as_I_was_among_those_who’d_got_100/100_in_his_module, java. He
looked_at_me_straight_away_and_called_me.

Srikkanth_himself_was_shocked_when_he_found_me_as_the_culprit. But_he_was
helpless_as_company_is_very_strict_against_the_cheating_cases. He_asked_me
again_and_again_the_name_of_the_guy_for_whom_I’m_screwing_up_my_career.
But_how_would’ve_I_named_my_love. I_didn’t_speak_a_word. He_insisted_again
and_again_that_Infosys_needed_brains_like_me_but_I_would_not_listen.
Finally_he_gave_up_and_reported_to_HR_department. The_same_question_was
asked_again_and_again_from_me_but_my_love_was_the_most_important_thing_in
the_world_for_me_now. They_then_asked_me_to_write_a_resignation_letter_and
I_did_the_same. I_was_fired.

Someone’s_strange_voice_hit_my_ears_and_came_out_of_the_world_of_my
thoughts. I_was_still_sitting_on_the_footpath_and_looking_at_the_trees_and
the_birds.

“Come_on_sir. Sit_in_the_cart.”_Cart_driver_said.

“Oh_yes. Lets_go.”_I_replied_and_left_the_campus_and_the_company_for_ever.

Now_you_all_must_be_having_one_question_your_mind. That_what_about_Geetha?
Geetha_cleared_the_exam. I_think_I_had_taught_her_enough_and_rest_she
cheated_from_the_guy_who_was_sitting_next_to_her. I_waited_for_her_call
after_the_incident_but_she_didn’t. I_called_her_but_she_didn’t_attend_my
call. And_most_interesting_thing_is_that_it_has_been_8_months_since_that
incident_but_we_never_had_a_talk.

Apologizing doesn’t mean that you are wrong & the other is right It means that you value the relationship more than your ego …

For every minute you are angry with someone,
you loose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back…
So Keep Smiling…

Vision without Action is merely a Dream,
Action without Vision is merely passing time;
But Vision and Action together can change the World…

Happiness is not something you find, it’s something you create..

LOOK BACKWARD WITH GRATITUDE,
UPWARD WITH CONFIDENCE
AND FORWARD WITH HOPE…

I hope your day is Beautiful With lots of sunshine to light your way.
May nothing but happiness surround you,
And may you have a really spectacular day …

Please_read_it_till_the_end_…its_amazingly_beautiful_…!!!!
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TRUST

TRUST_is_a_very_important_factor_for_all_relationships. When_trust_is__broken,_

it_is_the_end_of_the_relationship. Lack_of_trust_leads_to___suspicion, suspicion_generates_

anger, anger_causes_enmity_and_enmity___may_result_in_separation.
A_telephone_

operator_told_me_that_one_day_she_received_a_phone_call. __

She_answered, “Public_Utilities_Board.”_There_was_silence._

She___repeated, “PUB.”_There_was_still_no_answer. When_she_was_going_to___

cut_off_the_line, she_Heard_a_lady’s_voice, “Oh, so_this_is_PUB.Sorry,_

I_got_the_number_from_my_Husband’s_pocket_but_I_do_not_know_whose_
number_it_is.”_

Without_mutual_trust, just_imagine_what_will_happen_to_the_couple_

if___the_telephone_operator_answered_with_just_“hello”_instead_of_“PUB”.

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NO_POINTING_FINGERS_

A_man_asked_his_father-in-law, “Many_people_

praised_you_for_a_successful_marriage. Could_you_please_

share_with_me_your_secret?”_
The_father-in-law_answered_

in_a_smile, “Never_criticize_your_wife_for_her_shortcomings_

or_when_she_does_something_wrong. Always_bear_in_mind_

that_because_of_her_shortcomings_and_weaknesses, she_

could_not_find_a_better_husband_than_
you.”_

We_all_

look_forward_to_being_loved_and_respected. Many_people_are_

afraid_of_losing_face. Generally, when_a_person_makes_a_mistake,_

he_would_look_around_to_find_a_scapegoat_to_point_the_finger_at._

This_is_the_start_of_a_war. We_should_always_remember_that_

when_we_point_one_finger_at_a_person, the_other_four_fingers_are_

pointing_at_ourselves.

If_we_forgive_the_others, others_will_ignore_

our_mistake_too.

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CREATING_PERFECT_RELATIONSHIPS?_

A_person_visited_the_government_matchmaker_for_marriage, SDU,_

and_requested_“I_am_looking_for_a_spouse. Please_help_me_to_find_

a_suitable_one.”_The_SDU_officer_said, “Your_requirements, please.”_

“Oh, good_looking, polite, humorous_, sporty, knowledgeable, good_

in_singing_and_dancing. Willing_to_accompany_me_the_whole_day_at_

home_during_my_
leisure_hour, if_I_don’t_go_out. Telling
me_

interesting_stories_when_I_need_companion_for_conversation_and_

be_silent_when_I_want_to_rest.”_The_officer_listened_carefully_and_

replied, “I_understand_you_need_television.”_

There_is_a_saying_

that_a_perfect_match_can_only_be_found_between_a_blind_

wife_and_a_deaf_husband_,because_the_blind_wife_cannot_see_

the_faults_of_the_husband_and_the_deaf_husband_cannot_hear_the_

nagging_of_the_wife. Many_couples_are_blind_and_deaf_at_the_courting_

stage_and_dream_of_perpetual_perfect_relationship. Unfortunately,_

when_the_excitement_of_love_wears_off, they_wake_up_and_discover

that_marriage_is_not_a_bed_of_roses. The_nightmare_begins.

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NO_OVERPOWERING

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Many_relationships_fail_because_one_party_tries_to_overpower_

another,or_demands_too_much. People_in_love_tend_to_think_that_

love_will_conquer_all_and_their_spouses_will_change_the_bad_habits

_after_marriage. Actually, this_is_not_the_case. There_is_a_Chinese_

saying_which_carries_the_meaning_that_“It_is_easier_to_reshape_a_

mountain_or_a_river_than_a_person’s_character.”_

It_is_not_

easy_to_change. Thus, having_high_expectation_on_changing_the_

spouse_character_will_cause_disappointment_and_unpleasantness.

It_would_be_less_painful_to_change_ourselves_and_lower_our_expectations..

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RIGHT_SPEECH_

There_is_a_Chinese_saying_which_carries_the_meaning_that_“A_speech

_will_either_prosper_or_ruin_a_nation.”_Many_relationships_break_off

_because_of_wrong_speech. When_a_couple_is_too_close_with_each_

other,we_always_forget_mutual_respect_and_courtesy. We_may_say_

anything_without_considering_if_it_would_hurt_the_other_party.

A_friend

_and_her_millionaire_husband_visited_their_construction_site._

A_worker_who_wore_a_helmet_saw_her_and_shouted,”Hi, Emily!_Remember

_me?_We_used_to_date_in_the_secondary_school.”_On_the_way_home,_

her_millionaire_husband_teased_her, “Luckily_you_married_me.Otherwise_

you_will_be_the_wife_of_a_construction_worker.”_She_answered_,

“You_should_appreciate_that_you_married_me. Otherwise, he_will_be_

the_millionaire_and_not_you.”_

Frequently_exchanging_these_remarks_

plants_the_seed_for_a_bad_relationship._

It’s_like_a_broken_egg_-_cannot_be_reversed.

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PERSONAL_PERCEPTION_

Different_people_have_different_perception. One_man’s_meat_could_be_

another_man’s_poison. A_couple_bought_a_donkey_from_the_market._

On_the_way_home,a_boy_commented, “Very_stupid. Why_neither_of

_them_ride_on_the_donkey?”Upon_hearing_that, the_husband_let_the_

wife_ride_on_the_donkey. He_walked_besides_them. Later, an_old_man_

saw_it_and_commented, “The_husband_is_the_head_of_family. How_can_

the_wife_ride_on_the_donkey_while_the_husband_is_on_foot?”_Hearing_this,

_the_wife_quickly_got_down_and_let_the_husband_ride_on_the_donkey.

Further_on_the_way_home, they_met_an_old_Lady. She_commented,_

“How_can_the_man_ride_on_the_donkey_but_let_the_wife_walk. He_is_

no_gentleman.”_The_husband_thus_quickly_asked_the_wife_to_join_him_

on_the_donkey. Then, they_met_a_young_man. He_commented,_

“Poor_donkey, how_can_you_hold_up_the_weight_of_two_persons._

They_are_cruel_to_you.”_Hearing_that, the_husband_and_wife_immediately_

climbed_down_from_the_donkey_and_carried_it_on_their_shoulders.

It_seems_to_be_the_only_choice_left. Later, on_a_narrow_bridge,

the_donkey_was_frightened_and_struggled. They_lost_their_balance_

and_fell_into_the_river. You_can_never_have_everyone_praise_you,_

nor_will_everyone_condemn_you. Never_in_the_past, not_at_present,_

and_never_will_be_in_the_future.

Thus, do_not_be_too_bothered_by_

others_words_if_our_conscience_is_clear..

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_BE_PATIENT_

This_is_a_true_story_which_happened_in_the_States. A_man_came_out_

of_his_home_to_admire_his_new_truck. To_his_puzzlement, his_

three-year- old_son_was_happily_hammering_dents_into_the_shiny_paint_

of_the_truck.

The_man_ran_to_his_son, knocked_him_away, hammered_

the_little_boy’s_hands_into_pulp_as_punishment. When_the_father_

calmed_down, he_rushed_his_son_to_the_hospital.

Although_the_doctor_

tried_desperately_to_save_the_crushed_bones,_

he_finally_had_to_amputate_the_fingers_from_both_the_boy’s_hands._

When_the_boy_woke_up_from_the_surgery_&_saw_his_bandaged_stubs,

_he_innocently_said, “_Daddy,I’m_sorry_about_your_truck.”_Then_he_asked,_

“but_when_are_my_fingers_going_to_grow_back?”_The_father_went_home_&

_committed_
suicide.

Think_about_this_story_the_next_time_someone_steps_on_

your_feet_or_u_wish_to_take_revenge. Think_first_before_u_lose_your_

patience_with_someone_u_love. Trucks_can_be_repaired.. Broken_bones_

&_hurt_feelings_often_can’t. Too_often_we_fail_to_recognize_the_difference_

between_the_person_and_the_performance. We_forget_that_forgiveness_

is_greater_than_revenge.

People_make_mistakes. We_are_allowed_to_

make_mistakes. But_the_actions_we_take_while_in_a_rage_will_haunt_us_forever.

About EnableSessionState attribute -

• A page (or frame) that has session state write access (e.g. <%@ Page EnableSessionState=”True” % > ) will hold a writer lock on the session until the request finishes.
• A page (or frame) that has session state read access (e.g. <%@ Page EnableSessionState=”ReadOnly” % > ) will hold a reader lock on the session until the request finishes.
• Reader lock will block a writer lock; Reader lock will NOT block reader lock; Writer lock will block all reader and writer lock.
• That’s why if two frames both have session state write access, one frame has to wait for the other to finish first.

 When setting Cookieless=true then

1. You cannot use absolute link in your pages.
2. You have to perform additional steps to switch between http and https pages in your application.
3. If your customer sends a link to a friend, the URL will contain the session ID and both users could be using the same session ID at the same time.

Difference between Session.Abandon(), Session.Clear() -

The major difference is that if you call Session.Abandon(), Session_End will be fired (for InProc mode), and in the next request, Session_Start will be fired. Session.Clear( ) just clears the session data without killing it.

Que. Why aren’t my sessions expiring, I am using SQLServer mode?